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Some links in this article are affiliate links. We may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through these links, at no extra cost to you. We only recommend products we find useful to our readersRelationships can be really lovely in the start. Yes, the starting phases of a relationship is always happy, exciting, lovely and whatnot.You will be in the stage where you are just getting to know about the guy and he is getting to know about you. There are no decisions, regrets or even choices that you have made yet in the relationship. But as and when time passes, you want him to see the real you and you want to be the same around him like how you would be with your friends. Certain issues may come up when you are your real self. Yes, not always does a girl put out her real self. This could be a major issue later in the relationship. But as a girl, there are certain sensitive topics and some things to avoid in a new relationship when it is not the appropriate time.
You are probably putting your relationship in danger or in harness in the process of trying to make it clear and alright. You try to prove certain things to him and bring out your real self only to realize that he is getting affected mentally. Why does that happen? Why do women’s hormones jump from one level to another as soon as they think they have reached a certain age or phase in life? Well, the problem here is not your hormones. It is your tongue. You need to have a control on the number of things you tell him. Too early in to the relationship, you cannot tell him certain things because it could freak him out. So, there are certain ‘no opening of sensitive topics’ in a relationship. We are going to explain to you whey these topics are a big no. So, here are some sensitive topics that you definitely cannot open to your partner in the early stages of your relationship.
Top Delicate Topics to Not Open
1Ex-relationship
Even if you think that you want to share more than necessary, trust me, the guy really doesn’t want to know. It is better for him to not know the various little things he did or didn’t do. So, always be on a watch when you start talking about your ex in the early stages of your relationship with your current boyfriend.
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2Your political stance
3Religious beliefs
Trust me, if you either start thrusting your beliefs on him or if you try to dwell too much into his preference, it’s not going to end well. If faith to you is a major part or portion of your life, then it is better to choose a man who believes and accepts what you say. If belief is not a big deal to you, then none of this should be a problem. You better be very sensitive and realistic when it comes to religious beliefs.
4Your biological feelings
Your hormonal imbalances will make you do that. But, just because you are messed up biologically, you cannot expect a man who just entered your life to give you a child already. Wouldn’t that just freak the guy out? I get it that your clock is ticking faster and you have no time to think a lot now. But, that also doesn’t mean that you should put your feelings openly to the guy in the new relationship. This is an extremely weird and sensitive topic to open. You never know if the guy really loves you so much, you don’t know if he is ready for babies, you don’t know if he even wants babies. There are a lot of ifs and buts and nos in this topic.
If you really like the guy and you are planning on saying that to him, think for a minute. See if it is going to do any good to you, him or the relationship. If your answer to this is a no, then why even bother? Be very careful when you open such topics!
5Income related topics
You cannot, just cannot compare your salary with his. If he wants to tell you, he will automatically tell you when he finds it fit. Don’t dwell into these personal details. Also, never compare! You are way too early into the relationship to even start talking money and crap. So, never compare or ask him why he earns so and so. That isn’t going to do any good to anybody or anything.
6Marriage
-Pavithra Ravi